i understand your pain, keep praying and keep your head held high, god works in mysterious ways. I say..donate any change you have to someone who needs help as well..and i promise you, God will give you back what you gave and 10x more. stay positive and stay strong. your family needs your strength, even when its tough, have hope. i feel your pain as i am in a family of 8 and my father is unemployed and disabled. im in college trying to support myself and it is a HUGE struggle. My family is struggling as well but i promise, faith keeps you going.
hope these words of encouragement helped somewhat.
There IT is......................
There it is....is for the many who found this world full of people with greed who'll offer you the moon and then always keep it just out of reach.I'll share what I've learned freely as it was shared with me.It's simple and clear as it should be.No need to go to hours of meeting and give away your hard earned cash to scam artist in sheep skins.They'll not only take your money but, your time and god forbid your faith! If it's God's will I will accept a donation to expand my efforts to reach others by various methods.If not then please accept the following in the spirit it was given.
I.Believe----
With all your heart,soul and substance you must"Believe in whatever you may want to be manifested in reality. By faith we create our own reality.By faith we create our world and are what we believe.Tell anyone something about themselves long enough and the will not only believe it but,will act as if they are.
II.Speak It---
For good or bad, we speak our reality into being.If it's negative...then we mistakenly start the process of manifesting the bad omen by just speaking it and creating the atmosphere for it to exist.The World and all that is and ever shall be is and was spoken into being.GOD spoke the creation into being....and GOD said let there be....and it was good.So everything "EVERYTHING" starts with belief in the spirit realm and becomes a spoken word,then reality.
III.Act on It---
Now a mean,take the path of least resistance.Just a feather touch.We limit our power just using pure worldly force often over doing the nature process of miracles.Making a simple job harder or killing it altogether.The Women with the issue of blood first believe then spoken of her faith then acted on it by touching Jesus.This World has taught us that only by physical means we can realize our dreams.Not only would this debunk miracles but,kill the faith of those who do.Thankfully God is all powerful and there are if not all things mere man can not explain.
IV.Receive it----
You sometimes can't see the forest for the trees.Don't be blinded by the materiel world and how thing may appear.The world and the devil we try to bluff you out your blessing.When things look there worst and seem to just go wrong then,look a little deeper and don't miss that blessing thats already there that you don't see or just around the corner!The rule of thumb is the stronger the resistance seems the closer the blessing!!!
V.Testify to others---
Freely you we're given so freely share your blessing with others.
This is the most Important step.We can't be shady and hide our light under a bush...we must hold it up for others to see.Not only does this builds the faith of others but, makes a positive atmosphere of blessing and goodwill in the dog eat dog world that would stamp out spiritual miracles!
Now go out and bless others and god will bless you.
in response to bookworm2011...Wow! Char, that is so awesome! I'm thrilled for you!!!! Now, go kick some butt and lose the rest during your second round!
in response to Bee's Knees...Just wanted to thank you for your support through my diet, I am done with round one and lost about 17-18 pounds. I am in a size 9 down from a 12 and very happy..now I am working out and watching what I eat carefully. I may do another round later but I am very pleased with the results. I emailed you a one to one photo before and after
thanks again
char
in response to bookworm2011...My family doesn't like it when there are no snacks either, but I have weaned them off of them almost entirely now, because, the truth is, it won't hurt them to not eat sweets. In fact, sugar is the major cause of most sickness, since it is poison, and kicks the heck out of our immune systems! I'm so glad the green tea and stevia help you! It IS hard to remember to drink all that water, since you are a busy lady! Hang in there and it WILL come off!
By bookworm2011 - on Jan 21, 2012... modified on Jan 21, 2012
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in response to emmacole...Hi,
use any extra money you get to start purchasing diapers/wipes right now..you have a good five months to get prepared..look for sales and cut coupons as well for these essential items. Also, write every diaper and baby food company, formula company and tell them your situation and ask if there is anything that they can do to help you since you are experiencing a hardship. Sign up for all the new offers they give new moms as well(similac, gerber etc) go to the websites and start getting their freebies, they will send you formula, diapers etc..all the samples add up. Also spend all the time you can looking on craigslist in the free section or freecyle for baby supplies..People give them away all the time. Tomorrow I am giving a teenaged kid 10 jars of baby food, a ton of formula, new baby clothes my son didnt wear with tags still on, a backpack/infant carrier for camping and a ton of other stuff. I just want to give it to someone that needs it and so do many other people. Its easier than having a garage sale and I dont want things piling up as my son is constantly growing out of things..Also sign up for WIC so that you can get help with formula or food if you breastfeed. I have a good friend who had twins and she was pretty exhausted, I was exhausted with just one..your going to have to take care of yourself, try to get rest whenever you can and maybe take a break from school so that you can function with the lack of . It will be hard but not impossible. I know it must be pretty scary doing it alone and having your parents want you to give the babies up, but I hope that you are still able to form a support system with other friends or family members that can help you when your babies are born..I hope this helps, just know you can do anything if you want it badly enough and dont give up, I think you will be a great mother..God Bless
ps file for child support asap..even if he is not wanting to be physically involved or emotionally with the babies, he helped create them and should be financially responsible. You shouldnt have to support them alone..
in response to emmacole...i too am in my 20's finishing my degree and am 16 weeks pregnant with twins. the dad left me for someone else and wants no part. my parents are really pushing adoption but i cannot do that. i really hope to hear from you. even with the support of so many friends, i feel so alone. you don't hear about a single pregnant women expecting twins.
in response to Bee's Knees...No Worries! That happens to me every once in a while too..I got a little bummed because the past two days I saw an increase of 6 ounces but then realized that I had stopped drinking all the water..I made myself drink the required glasses today and we will see what the scale says tmw..Ive found drinking some green tea with the sweetner completely takes care of any cravings when I cook for my family. I tried to eliminate boxed and packaged sweets so I must endure the baking treats for them since Im the one who got myself into this by telling them they need to eat healthier, homemade snacks! Thank you again for the support! I hope that things are well with you and your family..
char
in response to bookworm2011...Hi, Char. Sorry for the delay in answering. Ever notice how Aip sometimes tells you there are messages, then, after you open and read one, it tells you there are no more? I just ran across this message from you that I never even read before, so I'm assuming that is what happened.
I know. It is sooooo hard to cook or bake for others when you are not allowed to have any! But, when you are in the zone, you are in the zone!
Keep going! You CAN get down to the pre-baby weight again! I did.
I can't wait to see the after picture!
in response to Bee's Knees...Dear Bee's Knee's:
Thank you for your answr and taking the time to set me along the right reason why I am here. We all can use the help at times and me I am looking for an angel, for a long time now have been putting it in prayer to have a family car for my family of one child. this is one reason why I am looking into the grants and see where the Creator will guide me too. Once again thank you for your time... Close with love and peace... StrongBear
in response to georgette7...Thanks, Georgette. I do think it helps when people can see it is a real need, and that it goes directly to pay that need, instead of just a random person's account. Scammers have been here and tricked people into giving them lots of money in the past. We've lost many good contributors because of that. When new contributors join, and ask me how to tell which people have real needs, a good rule of thumb is seeing that some needs are real and having proof (like when the bill is paid directly.) so you have a good point.
in response to Bee's Knees...i just wanted to make sure no one was thinking that they would be sending the funds to me.i know all of you on the site whom are helpping are doing things as you can.i was reading things on the site befor posting.you are doing a great job with all repiles
in response to georgette7...What I am saying is that money is not often exchanged here in any way (direct gifts, grants, paying of bills, etc...) I understand you are asking for tax help. Everyone seems to be struggling right now, especially this time of year. Many are disabled, homeless, have no food, etc....
We have no idea which contributors happen to be reading the posts and are financially able and willint to help. Sometimes this does happen, but most of the time, we try to swap helpful info, resources for help through different organizations, etc...(usually the people who need help the very most are helped in those cases)
We have no access to any cash other than whatever we each earn via our own jobs.
Many times people have the misconception that we work for a large corporation and are able to distribute funds from a large account.
I hope this information helps.
I wish I could be of more help.
I know how it feels to be hassled for payments due.
God bless you.
in response to StrongBear...Hello, StronBear,
I was losing my house when I found this site. I was not sure what it was at first. I have never been given a grant here. I found out the people here help one another as they can. Some have been given cash assistance by other members, but mostly I see people giving one another support and information. Many contributors have taken the time to research different topics and are able to point others in the right direction for help.
Hello Sis just wanted to introduce my self first; I am StrongBear. You have been here from the time of 2010 and was wondering why you came to this site was it like me looking for grants? Ofcourse, with your permission I am asking of you. My reason is to find out if this site does help us, for I am looking for grants too... Please for give me if I sounded bold just wanted to know what is up with our site here? :) thanks for even reading this, close with love and peace... StrongBear
in response to georgette...We can help you with ideas about how to find resources for aid, but we cannot guarantee you will be gifted cash. Each of us gives as we are able.
needing help with taxs,home inc.,food,household items.these are the first main things i need to take care of.i put up a request on the home page.what help we get that would be great.anyone can make the main payment to whom it goes to
in response to Bee's Knees...if you have a need you can just let someone either pay it to the sorce or just get you the item you need.that is what i am looking for someone to do.i am not asking for cash in my hand just help.and that's whatever help i can get.i will still try to do things on my own.do not mean to sound mean but that's how i fell
i have been to places to get help.the only thing they would tell me is that we can not help you at this time.
in response to hoffa...HCG is fairly cheap and fast, although, to make it work, you do need to do it for a minimum of 23 doses, I think (3 doses a day). Another one that totally works is low carb. I have to run right now, but will be back soon...
Gud morning...so I been reading alot of what you wrote to bookworm and I was wondering what is it that u recommand her to take for her to lose 8ponds in 8days! Thats amazing...i want try watever it is if its not to expenive.I been taking diet pills forever and the only that hd seem to work was hydrocut but u have to wrk out a ton, abd lipozene makes you have oily gas, and thats not good..lol so I could use some of your advice asap..i want to be that sexy body for the summer
in response to Bee's Knees...I appreciate your support, I really do..this means so much to me because I really want to get healthier and back to where I was pre-baby. I am proud to say I have been very strict with my eating. Its SO HARD because I cook alot and like to experiment for my family. I fried them catfish and fries and cornbread one night this week and about died from the smell!! ALso was running late and no time to cook and had to stop at McDonalds for my kids a few times and the smell of the fries almost made me give in but I reminded my self these are the steps I need to take to achieve this goal. I did happen to find my size 5-6 pants and clothing in my garage and some of my pants are still new so my goal is to get down to those sizes from where I am now (a 10) and that way I wont have to do a ton of shopping for new clothes.
Just weighed in , I am on day 8 and have lost a total of 8 pounds! Im very excited and thank yoiu again for all of your help!
Char
I am in the same shape as U!! But I believe if I help others it will come back my way one day!! Please let me know what I can do for U!! Find me as a Friend on FB! Marsha Cooper from Kite, Ga.
in response to bookworm2011...Wahooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! That is so great! I'm so glad to hear it! I'm proud of you! Now, just beware that your rate of loss may slow a little after the first week, but do not be discouraged and do not give up! Most importantly, do NOT listen to people trying to discourage you! Remember, if you cheat, it not only will slow down your loss, but if the cheat is great enough, it will cause you to gain. Some cheats cause a several lb gain and take 3 days to get back to where you were.
Also, if you hit a plateau, where you have stayed the same weight for several days, ditch the shrimp, oranges, and tomatoes, since they have been known to hold people up.
You can totally do this!!!!!!!!!!!!
Keep reporting back--please!
I love hearing about your success!
Good am! Just wanted to say I love this diet!!! I am not hungry at all and I have been on the diet one week. I have lost 6 pounds so far..thank you so much for the encouragement!
in response to JayR...Hi, JayR. If you tell your story briefly, on the main page, and list your specific needs, as well as becoming involved in our community by helping others in what ever way possible, (referring them to helpful info, etc...) someone may be able to help you.
Remember that many are here running scams, just to see what they can get for free and not willing to give anything back or work for anything for themselves.
The contributors must weed through all posts from all sorts, and make the best determination they can.
Many of us can only brainstorm with you to help you try to find a solution.
Only a few have the means to help with money.
We each do what we can.
There is no guarantee.
I wish you all the best.
Yaweh bless you!
Hi there!
my name is JayR and I'm new to this website and need someone that might can help me with how to get the best possible results on getting some immediate help! I'm just kinda reaching out right now
in response to bookworm2011...Go to YouTube. There are tons and tons of success stories about HCG. People who are negative about it are usually those who have not tried it and probably did not read the book. If you understand the science behind it, and especially if you try it, there is no way you can give it a thumbs down if you are really being honest. Pounds and Inches by ATW Simeons is the book. You can find a free download of it online from many sources.
I agree completely with you about not keeping tempting things in your house! That is the only way I can pull it off too! Also, sugar is poison for everyone. It is the most addictive drug. Nobody needs it, since it poops your immune system. It won't hurt the rest of the family to do without it!
in response to Bee's Knees...I am so happy to hear a success sotry from the diet..Ive been leary of it because you hear alot of negativity..but I think some people may not use it correctly as with all diets..thats terrible about the kidney stones I have heard they are more painful than being in labor! I too lost alot of weight with protein only but was really paranoid about the effects on my kidneys...I was doing great this year until the holidays rolled around..I really love to cook and bake so we made tons of cookies, breads and pies! Needless to say, I need to get back on the wagon myself..my philosophy is if its not in the house, I cant eat it..and I wont be tempted.. so back to our healthy diet :)
we didnt want to deprive the kids of the holiday treats but we are all pretty burnt out and going back to normal! Thanks for the encouragement, I am sure you are going to continue doing well with your new plan of attack!
Happy New Year!
char
in response to bookworm2011...Lillian's drops are the best I've ever used. Also, the protein diet DOES rock, and I did have a kidney stone in the past, after doing it, but I've since learned that the protein diet did NOT cause it, but the low fat diets I did in the past made the stone form to begin with, then the protein diet released it!
I've been learning about the blood type diet too, which shows that there are certain things each person should eat, and not eat, according to their blood type.
That, combined with the low carb information has given me a real eating plan for life!
I have really fallen off the wagon in the past year, however, and have put back on some of what HCG helped me to lose, so I am back on the drops for now, till I get back down to where I should be.
You will be mad when your husband loses weight faster than you, when using HCG, by the way, since men lose faster!
What a great way to start the new year! I know you can do this in a short amount of time, too, since you are someone who is already all about being healthy and looking great!
All the best to you! Please take before and after pics and show me!
Good am! I was reading your previous posts on the HCG diet and wanted to ask you..do you know a legit site I can get the drops from? I know you used to get from Ebay and cant find them there anymore..but there are so many sites selling them and so many warnings about their authenticity..Im just not sure..if you have any info on that I would really appreciate it..I have had 4 kids and high blood sugar and like you there are some health conditions that run in my family that I can try to avoid by shaping up..Im not what anyone would consider overweight but Im just not as healthy as what I could be and this is going to mean dropping about 30 pounds..I used to run alot and I try to eat organic but its hard because the market is in another city....also tried protein diet but got scared of kidney stones so stopped even though I had great weight loss.. ..if you can help me with where to purchase the drops would really appreciate it..thank you for your help and have a blessed new year. Congratulations on your awesome weight loss!
in response to bookworm2011...Yes, there is a lady named Lillian Voden. You can find her on Youtube under the username Lvoden. She is very fair with her prices and a very very nice lady.
there is a place in Nashville N C by the name ; WINTER WEATHER RISEING, it is right up the road from Ward Drug store they will help you fix your home how ever you need windows ,doors they will even help you if you need help for the inside,I konw this because they help me fix mines.Email me I may have some educational things that may help with your child,I also live in Nashville NC I will help in anyway I can at least you will have someone to talk to and to know you are not alone.hanging on to faith @ aol.com